by Jim Fay and Foster W. Cline, M.D. ??? By teaching kids to learn from their mistakes and keepingmparents and kids out of power struggles and keepin parents calm and teaching kids to think for themselves?
and if so, does it work for you?
I am having a hard time, trying to get the concepts to sink in.
My aunt sent me the book. If you remain consistent in your reactions to bad or good behavior, it will eventually work. If you keep getting your kids out of trouble, they will be too needy when they are older; that's basically the main concept.
If you're consistent…it will work. Any time you do something different, it causes confusion and anxiety in your kid.
Yes, but parents don't care. Do you honestly think a parent will give up their power kick and let their child actually think?
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My aunt sent me the book. If you remain consistent in your reactions to bad or good behavior, it will eventually work. If you keep getting your kids out of trouble, they will be too needy when they are older; that's basically the main concept.
If you're consistent…it will work. Any time you do something different, it causes confusion and anxiety in your kid.
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I've read the book and have 2 kids. It has worked for me, but then again, I knew from my first child that constantly trying to find something that "works" was making the problem worse. Once I saw an episode on TV about raising kids and discipline, I realized what I was doing was exactly the worst I could be doing. Once I became consistent in what I did, my child became happier and much more well-adjusted. He has autism, so his problems were a regular kid's problems times 100. Just be patient with it. It will work.